It’s a typical afternoon, and once again, my kids are fighting over a toy. Each one insists the other had it first, and I’m stuck playing referee.
Adlerian Principle: Sibling rivalry isn’t just about the toy; it’s often about competition for attention or feelings of inequality. As parents, we can help them develop skills for resolving conflicts without stepping in as judges.
Practical Tips to Handle Sibling Rivalry:
1. Stay neutral: Resist the urge to pick sides. Instead, encourage them to work it out together.
2. Teach problem-solving: Ask questions like, “How can you both share this toy so everyone is happy?”
3. Praise teamwork: When they resolve the conflict, even if imperfectly, acknowledge their effort.
Ending with Hope: Sibling conflict is normal, but with the right tools, your children can learn to navigate these challenges with less intervention from you.
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