Dropping my son off at preschool this morning, the tears started before we even reached the door. “Don’t leave me, Mommy!” he cried, and my heart sank.
Adlerian Principle: Separation anxiety is a normal developmental phase. Children need reassurance that while they are apart from you, they are still safe and loved.
Practical Tips for Managing Separation Anxiety:
1. Prepare in advance: Talk about the separation ahead of time. “You’re going to preschool tomorrow, and I’ll be back to pick you up in the afternoon.”
2. Create a goodbye ritual: Something simple like a hug and a kiss on the hand can make goodbyes easier.
3. Keep it short: When it’s time to leave, be loving but firm. Lingering only prolongs the anxiety.
Ending with Hope: Separation anxiety won’t last forever. With patience and consistency, your child will grow more confident about being apart from you.
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